Playing the Trump Card

Not long ago, a law firm was operating out of this building. Now it is divided into three units with a shared kitchenette. It houses three small companies, each one more ambitious than the last. A few hours after lunch on an otherwise uneventful Tuesday, the CEO of one of those companies is having a heated debate with the software engineering lead.

Some new software is to be developed to support expanding business needs, and the two disagree on how it should be built. The engineering lead is convinced the CEO lacks the technical expertise to appreciate their plan's superiority. In turn, the CEO accuses the engineering lead of being lost in the tech and not taking wider business considerations into account.

After forty minutes, both have exhausted their arguments. The engineering lead has a trump card up their sleeve. "Look, I'm the expert. This is my territory. I'm making this decision." The CEO plays the higher hand, the ultimate trump card. "It's my company. If things go south, you switch jobs, but I take the fall. I'm making this decision."

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Engineers are trained to eliminate inefficiency. The above process doesn't seem optimal. If the CEO can overrule every decision anyway, then we can reduce the time, energy, and frustration in this whole charade by embracing the hierarchy and letting the CEO decide through anticipatory obedience.

But debate is valuable. Without it, the CEO's plan is never challenged. An effective argument may have persuaded them to re-examine their position. Perhaps the two minds would have found a middle ground better than either option. They are robbed of that opportunity. Furthermore, the CEO may infer a false consensus, given the lack of pushback. If the plan proves foolish, engineers may lose credibility for apparently agreeing with an idea that failed in practice.

It may seem sensible to eliminate the cards altogether, then, promoting reason over rank. But the danger is not in authority ending debates; it is in implicit authority contaminating them. A trump card can be a tool of clarity that explicitly defines the arena where arguments prevail. Without such an unmistakable space, hierarchy bleeds into everything. Individuals may stop voicing their opinions, and silence is the ultimate hierarchical mechanism. It's precisely because some debates end by trump card that other debates are free of power play.

Psychological safety is the bedrock of any sustainable team. The person on the receiving end of a trump card must still feel valued and respected. Teams should reflect on their past debates with the luxury of hindsight, and grow together.

Conflict avoidance is a false economy. Open the stage for a healthy amount of disagreement. Play the trump cards if you must, hug it out, and clear the floor for the next fruitful debate.